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May-June Transit

May has been a month full of excitement, outings, changes, departures, arrivals, surprises, badluck… well… it has been tiring!

If my chinese friend’s friend is right, the badluck for tigers will be going away as from 5th-7th June 2010 – twist all fingers. But still, the badluck was always accompanied by good happenings which alleviated the sadness brought with some happiness; or is it me who’s trying to be optimistic?

Anyway, I’m hopeful on this month and I just hope that my hope will not be left as hope…


What has happened to the era where the husband remains faithful to his wife till life ends, as promised in the vows? Is this era; full of lies, adultery & illegal sex, more interesting? Well, thinking of it, may be! Clothing style, talking attitudes, eating habits… everything changes, so why not relationships?

Self experience-wise, how can a man ask a woman whether she wants to have some nice time AT WORK when he is MARRIED? Disgusting, right? Unfortunately, that’s the trend nowadays. People are underpaid, working overtime, and when finally at home, it’s just eating or directly to bed. No time to de-stress, to have fun, to enjoy life. Divorces’ % is getting over that of weddings’. Open relationships are taking the lead.

We do not have many moments to rejoice like in the past, when engagements or marriages took over the weekends and replaced the neighbourhood’s tranquil environment with fiesta.

Why should humans taste different plates at the same time anyway? We can always make up another interesting dish with the same ingredient, can’t we?

Coming back to the sugary proposal I received, I don’t know whether I need to break all contact with that person, or should I keep on talking to him after having rejected him with several flat no-nos. But then, he works with me. How can I? It’s getting complicated this whole thing and I just wish he was not so sex-driven, because he is… was a good friend.


Knowing that we should not do something, sometimes some part of us; curiosity maybe or our devil-side (??), push us into going on the pathways normally barred with a no-entry sign by our goodwill.

I have been hearing things from my environment which gave me thought-of-the-day subjects. A general case: We love someone already, and we know deep DEEP inside that he/she IS the one. A third person comes in the beautiful picture and tries to ruin or be temporarily part of the dreams woven so carefully. Our inner soul stops him/her eventually. How dare he/she?

Love Triangle

Yet, he/she persists in seeking love or sex. Stopped, persists, stopped, persists… he/she finally stops. Great!

Is it?

Weak as we are, and curious as we are born, we go back to the person in some way or the other. The want he/she showed for us was too good  a feeling and now that he/she has seized his/her actions, we suffer from a void in mind, in heart… what is it? Do we miss those stop-persist sequences? Or are we curious to know what would have happened at the end, if we had let ourselves trapped?

It would have been easy to counsel someone facing this dilemma. But placing myself as the one facing it makes it terrible to accept the fact, any advice or comment.

In any case, we, humans, are far too complicated to be understood. Let’s drop the subject…


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So, this is MY blog! Started, yes, now time will see about the updates. I will site-visit you.

On the “HOME” page, you will find every  funky, funny, fishy things I’ve been upto. The “Today’s Special” is just a page which will not only hold my current emotions, wants etc… but will also help me in keeping this blog updated whenever I’m not in mood to write my whole life on the HOME page… Cool!

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